Marci + Redge's Wedding

Everything about this wedding makes me miss Summer terribly. The color, warm light, peaches, tomatoes, flowers, Marci's flowy dress, watching movies outdoors...sigh.

Fall I love you but you will never be Summer.

I was neck deep in 1st trimester nausea when I shot this wedding but, honestly, I was so transfixed on the thoughtfulness of the details that I don't think I felt sick at all until I was in the car on my way home.

I don't need to say much...the photos speak for themselves.

Marci and Redge have this soft, quiet aura around them which was cathartic considering the border line state of madness I live in. You just calm down when you are around them..and then you feel like walking under huge willowy trees and eating fruit. That's what they do to you.

I want to leave you with a few words the bride shared with me about her day (Marci, I hope you don't mind!):

"We have a family tradition of going up to my Grandpa’s cabin around the 4th of July. One of his favorite places in the world to relax and enjoy the most important things to him, his family.  As we were up there I cut down three quaky aspen trees to be a part of the decorations.  My grandpa often made tables and frames out of these beautiful trees and so whenever I see them it brings his gentle heart and warmth back to me.  I used these trees to display my family trees; one tree was dedicated to the Bendheim/Sprague family.  We rummaged through old pictures hearing stories and decided which ones would make the cut.  I saw Redge in so many of those old pictures, his eyes on his grandpa Sprague's, his nose on is grandma Bendheim. It helped us to connect to those that made the way for us. The next tree was dedicated to my side the Tuttle/Condie side of the family.  How I love the look of the pictures of my grandparents going off to war or smiling hand in hand on the farm.  The simple lives lead by them teaching the values and morals that would someday shape and grow my own tree.  The last tree was our baby tree, mine and Redges, it was us planting our seed and we will watch it grow through out the years.  Branches upon branches will come and our tree will continue to grow.

Our thank yous or favors at the end of the night were the fruit of the trees.  Peaches to take home.  Something tangible from the tree.  The giving tree always gave back.  And our families have given us so much."

How beautiful is that!!? I was so touched when I read it. They gave meaning to every part of the day. It was exactly what a wedding should be. It was a beautiful reminder to me of what we should be celebrating.

I was honored to be there. xo.

Trevi + Quinn's Wedding

Emotion like this can not be staged or "posed". Trevi, Quinn and family are the real deal. They were all happy. Really happy. Often when I meet new people and the "what do you do" conversation comes up and it ends with them wanting my website address and good intentions of looking up my work. I know that in a lot of cases, unless a business card was given, the web address is as good as gone. This time it was different.

Grant and I were vacationing in Kauai last November and were spending our last couple of days at a resort laying in a cabana sipping pina coladas. In the cabana next to ours the nicest couple was doing likewise activities. We started chatting and were really enjoying talking about family, life and our mutual love of the island. It ended with them gathering my website information and me thinking how nice it is when people ask even if they never look me up...BUT THEY DID!...and told their niece about me and 8mos later I was shooting Trevi's wedding in Santa Barbara! How amazing! To top it off they were one of the nicest, most genuine families. I felt like a cousin/niece/childhood neighbor by the end of the night. Their energy was infectious.

Trevi was named after the fountain in Rome. She is what her dad calls his "lucky charm".  I have no doubt that good fortune will follow her and her Quinn wherever they go.

Ceremony and Reception - Four Seasons Biltmore, Santa Barbara, California

Coordinated by- Central Coast Memory Makers

Quinn is a Writer/Director/Producer in LA and they had all these great movie quotes around the reception as well as an amazing grooms cake. Oh! and their dog was the ring bearer...such a great wedding. I could go on & on & on & on.........

Lauren + Colin's Wedding

I commonly don't meet a bride and groom until their wedding day. You know...emailing, maybe a phone call but getting together face to face isn't usually necessary. I love to shoot engagements before the wedding day so they can get an idea of how I work and I can get an idea of how they work...but this doesn't always happen and that's OK. Because of this, it's always a little mysterious to what my couple will look like. What will the style of her dress be? Will they be affectionate  or shy? Loud or quiet? It's fun anticipating the unknown factors that will impact how I shoot and what I see. It's that unknown that keeps me loving shooting in natural light and shooting weddings. It's guerrilla style. You have to always be on your toes, re-metering, watching five things at once, being one step ahead of an emotional moment so you can grab it and expose it properly. Not the most relaxing way to shoot, let me tell you. OK, I'm getting off track..

Lauren and Colin were seconds from appearing for the first time and someone turned to me (a bridesmaid?) and said, " You are going to love photographing them. They are both tall and beautiful". Sure enough they emerged, both, all legs. Lauren immediately exuded a confidence and radiance that told me she isn't afraid of being in front of a camera and Colin had this grin...every time he looked at his new wife..a grin.

I looked, I observed and I started to shoot....for the next 8hrs.

Another great wedding and another day of sweating it out guerrilla style...because that's how I do.

Guess where these two went on their honeymoon?....Vietnam. Rad, right?

Lauren and Colin, thank you thank you thank you for letting us follow you around all day. You made it too easy.

Ceremony: Newport Beach Temple

Reception: Strawberry Farms in Irvine (Gorgeous venue).

Flower by: Design by Aubrey

Wedding Season 2010

So I am back from what feels like 3 solid months of traveling. Dave & Mel's wedding in Brisbane was shear brilliance. Photobooth photos above prove the level of fun we had. (How did we fit our 4 noggins in that tiny photobooth?!..and why am I hogging the whole frame?)

I'm home. Summer wedding season 2010 has reached it's end and I can't get any work done before I say a few things...

I feel so grateful.

I don't say it enough.

I feel emotional thinking of the friendships with clients we made this year and years before. I feel overwhelmed at the gift I have been given of the all important task of documenting so many formative moments.

Sure I'm exhausted. Sure at times I feel burned out. No, being a photographer is not easy or glamorous. It's hard work and takes a toll on you physically, emotionally and mentally. But as I spent this summer shooting weddings with a wee babe growing inside me, I felt immense gratitude at the opportunity I have to work for myself, CREATE and control to an extent the story of my life. I have changes rapidly approaching my life and lifestyle and I feel comfort in the fact that I have photography. I have a career I really really really love and care about. I have a career flexible enough to let me be a business woman, a wife and a mother. Sometimes I just don't feel deserving.

So many blessings that I can only hope to give back.

Thank you to my beautiful clients for supporting me and my work...and for trusting me.

I really do love all of you to the moon and back.

Molly + Andrew's Wedding

Early in my career as a photographer a lot of  my work came from family, friends or friends of friends. Although those sources are still strong referral bases, most of my work now comes from clients I have never met previous to working with. We meet, we chat, we shoot.

This is how I met Molly and Andrew. I think they found me through my blog...and when we met for the first time at their engagement shoot, we chatted, we shot and we became friends. They were and have been fiercely loyal and supportive of me and my work. On their wedding day I felt more like an old family friend than hired help. This is how I always want to feel. This is how I always want the families to feel. I want to be a participant. I DON'T want to draw attention but I want my presence to be comfortable, natural and right.

I was so happy with Molly shook me out of work mode for a moment and asked for a photo of the two  of us together. Brides remind us to do that!I am never more honored than when someone trusts me to document their wedding day. All of my precious brides, couples and wedding day famalies mean so much to me.

Molly and Andrew are a solid couple. Happiness follows them.

Ceremony: Baldwin Hills Overlook, Culver City, CA

Dinner/Party: Rush Restaurant and Bar, Downtown Culver City.

(Grant and I have spent many evenings being tossed around by the wind, watching the sun set at the overlook. So when Molly asked if I had any suggestion for ceremony locations...It was the first place that popped into my mind.  I guess she likes wind as much as I do. Both locations are within 5 minutes walk of our house. Loved shooting a wedding in our neighborhood...I love traveling for work too (you all know that) but there was something about walking out my front door for a wedding that was nice. You can't blame me.)

Four Weddings

A little taste of some of the great weddings I have shot in the last month or so.

August is notoriously a super busy month for me and I really appreciate all of my brides and grooms for being so patient. I know the anticipation of getting to relive your day through your photos.

In true August fashion I am posting this at almost 5pm on a Friday...It was suppose to be up this morning. Oh me.

Tomorrow amidst all the stress I think we are trying to fit in the beach. I'm sure I will be sitting there making lists, emailing on my phone and calling people back. (I promise to try and actually enjoy some time off).

BUT

I am grateful I am busy.

Happy weekend. xo.

Anna + Dave's Wedding

I become friends with most of the couples I photograph. It just makes sense. You have unusual levels of bonding when you are working with people in stressful situations. As great as weddings are...it's no surprise to anyone, they can be stressful.

Anna and Dave are a couple I want to hang out with, like, everyday.

I've known Dave and his family for years but Anna was a complete surprise. I met her the day I shot their engagements and after 2hrs of first meeting was telling her I loved her. I wanted to cook food, watch reality TV and lay on my bed and cry with her about boys and cellulite. I fell in love.

I guess Dave did too.

Dave sang the most beautiful Josh Radin song to her at the reception;

"I could have saved so much time for us Had I seen the way to get to where I am today You waited on me for so long So now, listen to me say:

I need to be bold Need to jump in the cold water Need to grow older with a girl like you Finally see you are naturally The one to make it so easy When you show me the truth Yeah, I'd rather be with you Say you want the same thing too Say you feel the way I do"

It can be quite the journey finding the one you want to work at spending your life with. I feel like once you have you should be entitled to massages and poolside pina coladas for the rest of your life.

I found myself teary eyed trying to photograph that moment. I felt him. I felt her. I know those feelings. I've  lived through those feelings.

Thanks for having me out for such an inspiring and touching day. Although I didn't know it at the time, it was the first wedding I had shot as a Mom!

Under that blanket of amazing wide open Utah sky..June 4th 2010 became unforgettable.

xo-Rachel

Dave + Anna

Dave and Anna's full wedding story posted next week.

This couple is gorgeous. Like, really.

(Shot on land camera with 690-100pola film)

ps. NO photoshop editing done. This was strait out of the camera and scanned. That sky is for real people.

Brooke + Luke, San Diego Wedding

A short list of rad things that happened at this wedding:

hard hats

color

beautiful children

pinata

tacos

churros

"short people" daugther/father dance

belly garter slide

flowers

ice cream

giant groom

mini bride

..and that amazing gorgeous gigantic yard!

What an amazing day.

So much positive energy and so many beautiful people.

Thank you for having me out. xo.

Rachael + Alex, Montgomery Alabama Wedding

Alabama knocked my socks off! I showed up with a welcome bag in my hotel room. Score. I grocery shopped at a Piggly Wiggly. Score. I bought butterfly earrings at Apropos. Score. I got to sit in the bridal room as Rachael got ready and stare at her. Score. AND I ended the night by seeing my first ever firefly. It was a very busy and very productive 24hrs.

There are so many amazing neighborhoods near Montgomery. I want to go back and spend a week just driving the streets and photographing the people. Every person, house and street had so much to say.

Rachael and Alex, thank you for having me be a part of your wedding. I loved being there and cheering you on.

Life will be happy for you, I know it.

Mara + Danny, Boston Wedding

One of my favorite weddings. They way they planned their day was ideal. Small intimate group of friends and family, hours for us to walk around Boston Commons and just enjoy the day and great lunch/reception where they let the Myers + Chang do most of the work.

I just really loved hanging out with them and getting to spend so much time with them during their first day as husband and wife. I'll never get over how cool that is.

Thanks for having me out for a fantastic wedding in one of my new favorite cities.

(Remember how Mara is one of the masterminds behind the brilliant clothing line, Harvey Faircloth? Check out their spring/summer line...you will want everything.)

Natalie + Andrew

Some weddings are just really great. This was one of those.

Great details, great locations, great weather, great families, great food, great couple. It makes it hard not to have a good time on the job.

Married in the Newport Beach Temple, luncheon at Cannon's in Dana Point, Beach time at Dana Cove and their reception at the Natalie's parents home in Laguna Niguel.

One of my favorite parts of any wedding is being a part of the chaos. Chaos and problem solving bond people and wedding days are full of both. I left Natalie and Andrew's wedding and felt like a cousin of the bride.. or at the very least a next-door neighbor. I loved these families!!!

I have found myself part of a small OC community comprised of some fantastic clients. I just want to thank the Blackwelders, Hamiltons, Bournes and now the Kochs. It's like a family reunion at every wedding. It's that magic "word of mouth" that makes my world go round, and I wanted to thank all of you for supporting me and my business.

Happy first month of marriage Andrew and Natalie! Thank you for letting me be a part of the wedding festivities. xo.

ps. I made a cameo in one of the photos...can anyone find me?

(**Thank you to everyone that voted on my new blog image size!! It meant a lot and really helped me narrow down my options. 800px is the new me.)

Luck

The title of this post really has nothing to do with the couple shown. Other than the fact that it's St. Patty's day...and maybe my luck at having those birds fly by... I really don't think "luck" has anything to do with it.

I know a lot of people (myself included) will refer to marriage with terms like "lucky", "won the lottery", "derserve or don't deserve"...maybe sometimes with the notion of "luck turning".

Lets be honest, marriage is a lot of hard work. It doesn't just happen or keep or strengthen out of LUCK or anything else beyond your control. It happens by millions of micro decisions. It happens by CHOICE.

So lets start taking credit where credit is due...for the good AND the bad in our lives and relationships. I for one am going to try to leave luck out of it (no offense St. Patty).

The lovely couple pictured are the Gibb's. I photographed their sealing in the San Diego Temple Friday. How bad do I wish I could have photographed their elopement in Vegas three years ago?!! Now, that's what I call bad luck!

More from this wedding next week. xo.