My little buddy
I am writing this so much later in the month than I usually do. Typically I write these near the first part of the month..and this is at the end. Which I kind of don’t mind. I get to look back through your 7th month and write a little bit about what has already happened. A true update on what your 7th month was like.
I’ll just start by saying it was pretty great.
I have this strange feeling you will be walking before 12mos. BUT I could be totally wrong. That is your decision. You are just already pushing stuff around the house, like the laundry basket or play cars, walking behind them.
You crawl FAST. Pull yourself up to standing. Walk around furniture and started this fun thing this month where you stand only lightly holding on with one hand. It’s pretty fun to watch.
You fall. A lot. But we are there to catch you or almost catch you every time you do.
I wonder if there is any correlation with head bumps and intelligence (I kid).. Because you probably bump your head 10 times a day. You have so much you want to do and CAN do there is really no way to stop it. You are a force and we are mere spectators.
You are such a sweet sweet boy.
Constantly smiling at me and looking for me.
You crawl towards me saying “ma ma ma ma”.
The other morning you woke up on me with, I kid you not, bedhead.
Your hair is getting longer and your sweaty morning bedhead kills me.
You sleep so hot and often I find a little wet spot on the sheets from where your head was. New nickname “heater head”.
You have 4 teeth in already and it hasn’t been the easiest road.
Lots of teeth and teething mean lots of needing to chew.
We are trying to eat but you have preferences. You don’t want to be spoon fed. You like to hold whole foods like a half a banana, cooked broccoli, a green bean. You are a big boy and can do things on your own.
Except when it comes to sleeping.
You’ve been loving napping or trying to nap on me all day long.
Kind of hard to have happen when sister needs me too. The having two kids thing is sometimes tricky.
You are a great BFeeder but like to do it in a dark quiet room alone with me. You will watch the door until dad and sister are completely out and the door is closed. Then on occasion you will only take a couple sips and then want to get down, look around or, your favorite thing is playing with the curtains while you are still on my lap. You will turn towards them with a giant grin on your face waiting for me to give you attention for wanting to play with them. “You sneaky baby!! Babies aren’t supposed to play with curtains! Excuse me, we are supposed to be eating!!”.
It’s the little things.
We busted out Dad’s old baby clothes and I died and went to cute heaven when you put on his light blue sweatsuit from the 70s. So fun.
Your poor nails get so long and sharp and then you scratch your face up.
You rub your eyes and your ears when you are sleepy and your little nails get you. Makes it look like you are getting in fights.
You smile ear to ear when sister gives you so much attention first thing in the mornings. She coos at you imitating the way I do.
You like to play with anything she touches. She has her moments when she loves sharing with you and times when she doesn’t want you to touch anything she is playing with.
She has started picking you up and carrying you to us. The look on your face as she does this is priceless. It says, “Mom, is this really happening?”.
She likes to “help” you move..but pushing, pulling. We are teaching Nova to let you move on your own. She’s ready for her playmate to be a bit bigger. That doesn’t mean you get permission to grow up any faster mister.
I keep reminding myself lately that this is all temporary. All the hard day in and day out work and more importantly all of the amazing day in and day out.
I wont be tired forever. You won’t be teething forever. I won’t have all this extra baby weight forever. You won’t let me hold you while you sleep forever.
I’m trying to be in the moment. Dirty dishes, in our jammies and my two babies crawling all over me.
I feel grateful. Thankful. My life is composed of eating schedules, naps, soothing, tickling and lots of kissing and hugging and being close...so close to you and your sister.
Your dad and I are crazy about you two. We are out of this world tired and out of this world in love.
I know I will look back with fondness on the time in my life when our worlds revolved around this simple home life.
Love you so much buh buhs, buddy, sweet boy, baby brother, Fairbanks.
Thank you for making my days so filled with love and purpose.